Real Resolutions Counseling Blog
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Power of Solution Focused Therapy
Therapy often explores past struggles, but what if shifting the focus to solutions could accelerate change? Solution-focused questions help clients move from feeling stuck to envisioning progress, fostering empowerment and clarity. Unlike problem-centered approaches,...
Why does rumination run my life
Breaking Free from Ruminating Thoughts: How Therapy Can Help Ruminating thoughts can feel like an endless loop—replaying past mistakes, worrying about the future, or obsessing over things outside of your control. If you’ve ever caught yourself spiraling down a mental...
Proactive Therapy
Be Proactive, Not Reactive: The Power of Early Therapy Too often, people seek therapy when they feel overwhelmed, stuck, or in crisis. But what if you approached therapy proactively—before stress, anxiety, or life changes become unmanageable? Being proactive in...
Vulnerability with your spouse, say what!
Being vulnerable with your spouse can feel like a leap of faith, but it’s essential for a deeper connection. Sharing your fears, expectations, and even the parts of yourself that need healing allows for true intimacy to flourish. It’s not always easy to admit when...
Adults with OCD
Understanding OCD in Adults: Recognizing and Managing the Condition Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition characterized by intrusive, unwanted thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviors or mental acts (compulsions). While often...
lets talk about sex
Navigating conversations about sexual needs with your partner can be challenging, yet it's an essential part of building a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Vulnerability plays a crucial role here. It’s about opening up and sharing your deepest desires, fears, and...
Breaking habits
Ever felt stuck in a loop of habits you desperately want to break? You're not alone. Whether it's biting your nails, procrastinating, or feeling overwhelmed, changing behaviors can feel like climbing a mountain without a map. As a therapist, I see this struggle every...
Struugling w/ Perfecktionism
"Struggling with perfectionism? You're not alone! Here are 5 tools to help you embrace imperfection and cultivate self-love: Practice Self-Compassion: Treat yourself with kindness and understanding, just as you would a good friend. Be gentle with yourself when you...
Dangers of Urgency Culture to our Mental Health
Feeling the pressure to constantly hustle? 🏃♂️💨 Let's talk about "urgency culture" and its impact on mental health. ⚠️ In a world that glorifies busyness and constant productivity, it's easy to get caught up in the cycle of urgency. ⏰ But what are the real effects on...